#ABOUT THE FORMAT
Kinky parties are costumed, sex-positive parties where people come to relax, dance, meet people, or have sex.
Such parties are often held within the BDSM community and usually provide a safe and consensual space for adults to explore their sexual preferences and fantasies. Participation in such events should always be voluntary and based on the active consent of all participants. Sexual games and practices at kink parties are based on the principles of mutual respect, safety and trust. At our party, there is an ironclad rule: “no” means “no”.
Some guests come to satisfy their tactile hunger, others for sex, and others just to watch. Some come in couples, some alone, and some bring friends. The main difference from swinger and BDSM parties is that at kink parties, the theme and atmosphere play a big role. You need to come up with a theme and dress code, make a themed show. Be it a shibari session, a gymnastics performance or burlesque. At kink parties there is no strict fixation on any particular theme: here you can try different practices: from spanking to erotic massage. Also, at our parties there are always private areas that are equipped with everything necessary.
Some guests come to satisfy their tactile hunger, others for sex, and others just to watch. Some come in couples, some alone, and some bring friends. The main difference from swinger and BDSM parties is that at kink parties, the theme and atmosphere play a big role. You need to come up with a theme and dress code, make a themed show. Be it a shibari session, a gymnastics performance or burlesque. At kink parties there is no strict fixation on any particular theme: here you can try different practices: from spanking to erotic massage. Also, at our parties there are always private areas that are equipped with everything necessary.
#active consent
Get a verbal “YES” from the other participant to your offer of interaction. The person must express their consent clearly and without coercion.
what practices are there at our parties
Shibari is an ancient Japanese art of tying with ropes according to certain technical and aesthetic principles. It originated from the Japanese "hojo-jutsu" - a martial art of restraining captives. However, as an aesthetic-erotic practice, shibari was formed only by the middle of the 20th century. Shibari requires safety precautions, skill from the rigger (master) and trust, the ability to relax, from the model. In addition to the technical aspect, shibari has sensual, aesthetic and erotic components, is used as a form of submission, relaxation or practice of strengthening trust between two people.
Flagellation - or, in other words, spanking. One of the most popular sensual practices, because it does not require special furniture, equipment, devices - you can start with light slaps with your palm and focus on your feelings and feedback from your partner. The key place that receives maximum attention during spanking is the middle and lower part of the buttocks. It is imperative to avoid spanking near the tailbone and lower back - this can lead to damage to the spine and kidneys. You can use a variety of tools for spanking: floggers, stacks, paddles, whips - it all depends on your desires.
Sensorium is a practice aimed at deep self-knowledge through interaction with various materials, objects and sounds. The master gently accompanies the participants of the practice into the world of new sensations - affects the skin with cold / heat, rough / smooth, soft / hard, etc. The practice is accompanied by pleasant sounds, leisurely conversation about sensations, subdued lighting and a general atmosphere of relaxation
Waxplay is a sensual practice during which hot melted wax is dripped onto a person's skin. Depending on preferences, it can be delicate, relaxing and meditative, or it can become part of a BDSM game and give a thrill. Waxplay does not use regular household candles, but special ones made of pure paraffin, soy or beeswax. All these materials have different melting temperatures and intensity of action. Most often, this is a practice of care, even if it includes painful elements. Aftercare plays an important role in the practice itself. The way they remove wax from you, wipe or wash you, treat you or apply cream, hug you and sit next to you - all this enhances the feeling of security.
Electroplay* - electrical stimulation with weak currents (aka myostimulation) is a useful thing, and for some - even pleasant, because electricity makes our muscles involuntarily contract, causing twitching, trembling, shaking in the body and an emotional reaction, affecting the nervous system. Masters who work at sex parties use electrostimulators, more like a radio receiver: this is a current generator with a remote control for regulating the current strength, frequency and other parameters. Special electrode attachments are connected to the generator with wires; they can look like stickers or peculiar wands. Depending on the intensity of the impact, the master will conduct something between an erotic electromassage and a BDSM session.
*the practice has contraindications: pregnancy, the presence of a pacemaker, metal implants in the body, heart problems.
Yoni massage - the name of the massage came from the tantric practices of Hinduism. Translated from Sanskrit, "yoni" means female genitals, literally - "sacred place". The essence of the practice is to explore, caress, stimulate the vulva as if it were something perfect, worthy of true worship. If we consider yoni massage exclusively from a physiological point of view, it helps to relax the muscles in the hips and genitals, provides blood flow to the pelvis. From a psychological point of view, yoni massage helps to listen to your feelings and relax, get to know your own body better, and realize your sexuality.
Flagellation - or, in other words, spanking. One of the most popular sensual practices, because it does not require special furniture, equipment, devices - you can start with light slaps with your palm and focus on your feelings and feedback from your partner. The key place that receives maximum attention during spanking is the middle and lower part of the buttocks. It is imperative to avoid spanking near the tailbone and lower back - this can lead to damage to the spine and kidneys. You can use a variety of tools for spanking: floggers, stacks, paddles, whips - it all depends on your desires.
Sensorium is a practice aimed at deep self-knowledge through interaction with various materials, objects and sounds. The master gently accompanies the participants of the practice into the world of new sensations - affects the skin with cold / heat, rough / smooth, soft / hard, etc. The practice is accompanied by pleasant sounds, leisurely conversation about sensations, subdued lighting and a general atmosphere of relaxation
Waxplay is a sensual practice during which hot melted wax is dripped onto a person's skin. Depending on preferences, it can be delicate, relaxing and meditative, or it can become part of a BDSM game and give a thrill. Waxplay does not use regular household candles, but special ones made of pure paraffin, soy or beeswax. All these materials have different melting temperatures and intensity of action. Most often, this is a practice of care, even if it includes painful elements. Aftercare plays an important role in the practice itself. The way they remove wax from you, wipe or wash you, treat you or apply cream, hug you and sit next to you - all this enhances the feeling of security.
Electroplay* - electrical stimulation with weak currents (aka myostimulation) is a useful thing, and for some - even pleasant, because electricity makes our muscles involuntarily contract, causing twitching, trembling, shaking in the body and an emotional reaction, affecting the nervous system. Masters who work at sex parties use electrostimulators, more like a radio receiver: this is a current generator with a remote control for regulating the current strength, frequency and other parameters. Special electrode attachments are connected to the generator with wires; they can look like stickers or peculiar wands. Depending on the intensity of the impact, the master will conduct something between an erotic electromassage and a BDSM session.
*the practice has contraindications: pregnancy, the presence of a pacemaker, metal implants in the body, heart problems.
Yoni massage - the name of the massage came from the tantric practices of Hinduism. Translated from Sanskrit, "yoni" means female genitals, literally - "sacred place". The essence of the practice is to explore, caress, stimulate the vulva as if it were something perfect, worthy of true worship. If we consider yoni massage exclusively from a physiological point of view, it helps to relax the muscles in the hips and genitals, provides blood flow to the pelvis. From a psychological point of view, yoni massage helps to listen to your feelings and relax, get to know your own body better, and realize your sexuality.
FAQ
A kinky party is a party where participants engage in various forms of sexual or erotic play. These parties are often held within the BDSM community and typically provide a safe and consensual space for adults to explore their sexual preferences and fantasies. What sets the kinky format apart from other sex-positive parties is that it has a clear theme and dress code.
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Not everyone can get to the party. This can be done in two stages: a short questionnaire and an interview with the organizer.
How we select by questionnaire:
First of all, we look at the general adequacy of the questionnaire content. If we have doubts, we will always write to you and clarify the point that confuses us, so that no questionnaire will go unnoticed💖
How the interview goes:
Usually this is a small meeting for 20-30 minutes in a cafe or other safe area. We tell you about the basic rules, the format of the party, organizational issues and answer your questions. After successfully passing the interview, we send you the details to which you can transfer the payment.
How we select by questionnaire:
First of all, we look at the general adequacy of the questionnaire content. If we have doubts, we will always write to you and clarify the point that confuses us, so that no questionnaire will go unnoticed💖
How the interview goes:
Usually this is a small meeting for 20-30 minutes in a cafe or other safe area. We tell you about the basic rules, the format of the party, organizational issues and answer your questions. After successfully passing the interview, we send you the details to which you can transfer the payment.
It's absolutely normal to have no experience! It's even great that you'll experience these emotions for the first time. Kinky Batumi parties are the perfect format for getting to know the sex-positive community; our guests always include both newbies and experienced practitioners. We make sure that everyone feels comfortable and that everyone can find an activity to their liking.
We hold our parties in Batumi and its surroundings. We do not have a permanent location, which is necessary, first of all, for the safety of guests. We do not disclose information about the location even in the general chat of participants, only upon individual request. We take all guests by transfer from the center of Batumi to the location.
The next party will be held in the fall of 2024. The exact date is being confirmed.
You can pay for the ticket after successfully passing the interview and before the party: we have a 100% prepayment rule. After the meeting, you will be contacted whether you passed the interview and will be sent the details for paying for the ticket.
